Once again we had a get together, a late celebration of Elmer’s birthday. As usual I arrived late. Eating dinner late and having wine with friends while discussing things about life in general. I enjoyed it tremendously though I was a bit quiet. I was sleepy from the night before. But when I did contributed to the discussion, one or two including me became teary eyed. It was a discussion about depression and suicidal tendencies about the son of a friend. I am no expert about it but then I had parallel experiences. My two cents on the matter:1) listen, 2) love unconditionally, 3) don’t judge, 4) join a support group and 5)ask for a second or third opinion. I guess one cannot have it all. There will always be a problem.
Anyway I wish Elmer all the best. Stay as humble as you are with all your success.
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